Don't sit and wait....

I have been talking to several people. Please take note that this post has got nothing to do with me thinking I am better than anyone else and I at times may be what I am describing here but will still always have worries about the next day. There are people whom you can see from their outward appearance that they are just like that. They say don't judge a book by its cover. But you can see it somehow, they're not groomed, messy, dirty looking maybe too fat, or too thin, don't bother to dress properly, smell of sweat this and that, not studying nor working and whenever asked, comes up with excuses which makes you wanna go, yea those reasons are really gonna help you. Its ok to take a break from work and study, I am fine with it but seriously a direction has got to be set. You can sit around for 2 years, its all ok, but if you're not decided on whats the next step ( at least have thoughts like, oh I am going to try look for a job/degree tommorow ) then you're a slob and please either do some community work or volunteer at the animal shelter or something. Today we have the computer and ability to get online, WHAT if this is 30 years ago. What you gonna do when you have no job, no study, no work, nothing...then you sit around in the house eathing chips and watching national tv? That's ok for you? Man you are going to be paralysed. Clean the house, do something. Principles and plans don't work if even your short term plan doesn't work. You talk about when I work in the future, I am going to work but now is not working time. If you can't get your appointment right, you always make people wait, or you always have the self believe that things must be done slow and steady, I think its high time you wake up. What kind of principles are those based on? Principles of `I can be less a human before I started working?' Never gonna work. You will be like that when you work and anytime at all. Just tell me how does 10 years bad habit change the moment you graduate? In a day? Or two? You god or something. Wow! Praise be to you! Good work ethics and habits, including ordinary human habits, should start from childhood and if it didn't...at least let it start from the moment you took your degree course.
Don't just sit at home....do something...get a job, go to school, do some charity. Not sit at home, or get online. If the chair you're sitting on had feelings, she would really be offended you being on her head 24/7. Give them a break man!