Stupidity and love...
People say love makes you do stupid thing, love actually makes you stupid sometimes, and if you don't want to be stupid, then stop acting like one, when you're in love. You know there are different types of people....some common ones are, when they're in love with a guy/girl....you who are their friend, are somehow told a lot about their this new partner thing. They come and show you their pictures, tell you where they went, what they ate, how their parents laugh at them, giggle till the cows come home but the funny thing is, they never think why would I want to know so much about your partner in the first place? It is like when I love my foot so much ( let's say ) and out of nonwhere I come out and tell you how pretty is my foot and oh how many miles we've walked together, oh sometimes it stinks( giggle..) but I love the aroma it gives, and bla bla. You know what I mean? Don't give me a piece of it. I know you're in love, its even better for you not to even talk to me at all if that's what you love to talk to me about. No I am not here to share that with you. Friends should share? So now when you have sex we can do threesome? I don't think so, so hey, why not you keep your love to yourself and when you're talking to me, we talk to me? Don't tell me how good looking your boyfriend is, because I am not gay in the first place and if I am, you wouldn't want me to know.
I can understand the feeling of being so madly in love and all over your partner but after a while I learn that telling the other person about that special someone of yours so much, seriously, it is not an interesting common topic. Oh but you say I love him/her so much so I got to tell the world....be my guess cause I can definitely provide you with some numbers to call, you just tell me which national newspaper you want the announcement to be in.
You can tell me all about your partner and expect me to accept it and listen happily, I mean, not that I am not happy you found someone. I am....please remember I am not that old and my memory is still working. You need not remind me with things about them every once in a while unless I ask. If you still insist you must, I shall listen but the day you break up.......you be prepared to listen to me telling you, that you are stupid and your partner is right, you're the asshole and so on. Wouldn't sound nice and comforting isn't it? Where's the rationale? The rationale is here, you continuously praised your partner a thousand or trillion times that you made him as perfect as can be, when you guys breaks up, it has GOT to be your fault and you must be the asshole.
This condition is something like what my friend said, and I think you're right phungkie...what's wrong with these `in love' people anyway? The moment you fall in love it is as if no one else should matter and you're the most important person, your feelings and your partner's.
No offence, but if you got a boyfriend/girlfriend...tell me once, and trust me my memory power, as bad as it can be, I can definitely remember it until the day you tell me you guys are breaking up. Seriously, what in the world makes you think I would fall in love with what you fell in love with? You don't wanna hear about my underwear right? Well I don't wanna hear about your partner either. And for your information its rude...cause communication is between me and you when me and you are talking. Not between you and him/her when me and you are talking. Get that right. If I wanna know about your partner, trust me I will ask.
Problem is, I don't even see you talking about your parents like that....you don't love them? Or you just love your partner 30 times more?
No pun intended...I am not so into love kinda thing...probably I've reached an age where love is no longer something I am longing for, tried it...ain't nothing special with it. So whoever read this, please do me a favour before I do something like never initiate to first say hi to you? If I used to say HI and I stopped, its probably that! ....adios
I can understand the feeling of being so madly in love and all over your partner but after a while I learn that telling the other person about that special someone of yours so much, seriously, it is not an interesting common topic. Oh but you say I love him/her so much so I got to tell the world....be my guess cause I can definitely provide you with some numbers to call, you just tell me which national newspaper you want the announcement to be in.
You can tell me all about your partner and expect me to accept it and listen happily, I mean, not that I am not happy you found someone. I am....please remember I am not that old and my memory is still working. You need not remind me with things about them every once in a while unless I ask. If you still insist you must, I shall listen but the day you break up.......you be prepared to listen to me telling you, that you are stupid and your partner is right, you're the asshole and so on. Wouldn't sound nice and comforting isn't it? Where's the rationale? The rationale is here, you continuously praised your partner a thousand or trillion times that you made him as perfect as can be, when you guys breaks up, it has GOT to be your fault and you must be the asshole.
This condition is something like what my friend said, and I think you're right phungkie...what's wrong with these `in love' people anyway? The moment you fall in love it is as if no one else should matter and you're the most important person, your feelings and your partner's.
No offence, but if you got a boyfriend/girlfriend...tell me once, and trust me my memory power, as bad as it can be, I can definitely remember it until the day you tell me you guys are breaking up. Seriously, what in the world makes you think I would fall in love with what you fell in love with? You don't wanna hear about my underwear right? Well I don't wanna hear about your partner either. And for your information its rude...cause communication is between me and you when me and you are talking. Not between you and him/her when me and you are talking. Get that right. If I wanna know about your partner, trust me I will ask.
Problem is, I don't even see you talking about your parents like that....you don't love them? Or you just love your partner 30 times more?
No pun intended...I am not so into love kinda thing...probably I've reached an age where love is no longer something I am longing for, tried it...ain't nothing special with it. So whoever read this, please do me a favour before I do something like never initiate to first say hi to you? If I used to say HI and I stopped, its probably that! ....adios
posted by wilson at 9:16 AM
2 Comments:
There are two reasons why people 'show off' their partners to you.
1) Because they feel happy with their partners. Dahlah 'madly in love', what do you expect? When you have a brand new car, don't you want to share your delight with other people? When you have such a close relationship with your dog, don't you want people to know? Especially those close to you. It's okay, I get this all the time. At least they're happy, and not sulking and grumbling about how the World is eating up their souls, bit by bit.
2) Boasting runs through their family.
But of course, you'd never really know which category they fall in unless you know them REALLY well. But still, if anything, it's best not to jump to conclusions. :) Let them fall in love!
Who's stopping them to be in love? But unless your love is a three way affair and you let me sleep with the both of you, you can tell me all about it. Yea I love my dogs and I love my car, which is why you can come sleep with my dog, and ride in my car. You let me ride your gal...I let you talked about it 24/7 in every conversation we have. Its the same as if you have a beautiful leg and you are yapping about how the leg moves to another one who has no legs. Point that I made was, tell me all about your happiness, but not all the time. I wanna share them but when I ask you what you having for dinner, just tell me, I am having Pork Chops for dinner not, I am having dinner with Mr. Handsome at this restaurant. Or if I asked you what you're doing now, and you say, I am waiting for Mr. Handsome to come to pick me up in 4hours time. Get what I mean? Just tell me, I am writting a journal or watching TV or just talking to you would do. You can hit me with your boyfriend once in a while. Go ahead and be in love, unless you tell me if you don't put the word boyfriend in every sentence you talked to me, you can't be in love, then I forgive you and by all means. Because I suddenly believe I am that important and powerful to actually be the key to your happiness.
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